JFC.

[nwhiker]

What the fuck is it with my kids? They are fucking home during the day every single fucking day of the week, and the one fucking day I have to do laundry.... they're both wanting to do theirs. I just added a detergent sheet and started adding water and went to get my clothes and... Perry fucking tossed his in even though I had told them earlier in the day that I needed to get my (and dh's) laundry done today.

God, I'm pissed.

I don't know how we deal with this. I'm still doing the same amount of house cleaning and cooking as I was before. It was fine before, I was at home, it was my fucking job. Now I have another job, and nobody has really stepped up. Dh will, and without being as ass about it, do things if asked but I don't want to be the task leader, ya know?

I tried a list. They never check it to see what needs to get done.

Linnea will -like she did last weekend- clean the whole house periodically and I do certainly appreciate it, but just doing the handwash dishes from time to time and her own water bottles would be a real help.

I really wish getting a house cleaner wasn't such and ridiculously difficult and expensive thing. This is racist, and I'm sorry, but I got so tired of dealing with people who don't speak English.