So much for vacation.
17 Jan 2025 17:45I was able to score an extra day off today because I went in last Saturday because we had two gigantic (9 and 8) mouse litters on Friday and there was no way I could deal with all of those in one day. Since leaving them to Monday would mean they would be useless and thus killed for nothing, I swapped days. Yay for my boss agreeing.
So.
Brother and family, sister and her spouse are all here. We're going up to visit my aunt in Vancouver tomorrow.
Dh was supposed to take off from work today. Note the supposed. We were planning a chill day at home mostly because my siblings and I had paperwork to attend to (long story), and then we were all going to go to Uwajimaya. But dh first said "meeting I have to attend" and missed breakfast with us. Came to spend maybe 30 minutes, and then "something I have to finish up". That was 11am. He started with TEALS at 7:15 so has pretty much worked a full day.
The others all went out shopping, I skipped since no room in the car and going out thus made no sense. But I'm really tired of these home-vacation days that aren't. He's really good at this point about not working on weekends unless he's on call, but days he takes off during the week to get stuff done or just hang out? If we are not out of the house, he ends up working.
I dunno. It just makes me feel like shit, and I'm not quite sure I can pinpoint why.
So.
Brother and family, sister and her spouse are all here. We're going up to visit my aunt in Vancouver tomorrow.
Dh was supposed to take off from work today. Note the supposed. We were planning a chill day at home mostly because my siblings and I had paperwork to attend to (long story), and then we were all going to go to Uwajimaya. But dh first said "meeting I have to attend" and missed breakfast with us. Came to spend maybe 30 minutes, and then "something I have to finish up". That was 11am. He started with TEALS at 7:15 so has pretty much worked a full day.
The others all went out shopping, I skipped since no room in the car and going out thus made no sense. But I'm really tired of these home-vacation days that aren't. He's really good at this point about not working on weekends unless he's on call, but days he takes off during the week to get stuff done or just hang out? If we are not out of the house, he ends up working.
I dunno. It just makes me feel like shit, and I'm not quite sure I can pinpoint why.