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nwhikerJust as we were trying to find a solution for how to take care of my mom while my BIL is needing surgery and in recovery...
... the MC place my sister finally decided on called with a spot.
I was 100% for it, as was my brother but... sister was still hesitating. Note that her dh is my mom's age and they both know there are limited number of good years left.
Anyhow, I told her I'd support any decision she made, and I'd take my mom if she felt she couldn't do this this fast etc.
But at some point, she seems to have decided that she and her dh need the freedom to be able to take advantage of their lives and it looks like my mom will be moving into MC in a few days, before surgery certainly.
So far, it's being presented to her as temporary, and we'll go from there.
This needs to happen. She was going really really well at my sister's but it's not tenable for any of our families to be home bound to take care of her.
... the MC place my sister finally decided on called with a spot.
I was 100% for it, as was my brother but... sister was still hesitating. Note that her dh is my mom's age and they both know there are limited number of good years left.
Anyhow, I told her I'd support any decision she made, and I'd take my mom if she felt she couldn't do this this fast etc.
But at some point, she seems to have decided that she and her dh need the freedom to be able to take advantage of their lives and it looks like my mom will be moving into MC in a few days, before surgery certainly.
So far, it's being presented to her as temporary, and we'll go from there.
This needs to happen. She was going really really well at my sister's but it's not tenable for any of our families to be home bound to take care of her.
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